He responded a day after thanking me for the simple gift I gave him. Then yesterday, I shoot him a message on facebook asking for a certain schedule of an event.
Until today he has not responded, though I see him always online on Facebook.
He replied he was just busy and sure he was, he was full of lame excuses and denials and I believe some lies as well.
He never once showed me any of his past warmth such as reaching to touch me etc, while I was there.
The worst possible thing you can do is take it personally and start beating yourself up over it.
This will eat away at your self-esteem and will repel any new potential suitors that might come along.
I know plenty of gorgeous, smart, funny, successful, amazing women who have had the vanishing act pulled on them and it didn’t make them any less gorgeous, smart, amazing, etc.
A guy can lose interest for any number of reasons and oftentimes it has more to do with him than with you.
over a week ago we had an amazing outdoor activity. So we spent that weekend training, and we had lunch and laughs afterwards.If not, read this next: If He’s Pulling Away, Do This... But when he text me or he call me, he act like everything is fine after he vanished. He said he just dont like to texting, dont like to stay on phone for a whole day. i was with him for several months and he pursued me, gave me flowers for valentines day, took me to dinner, picked me up in his car, spent weekends together, and made plans for future events. He changed his phone number and ghosted me in mid conversation about coming to my birthday.And also not possible to call bcs his country (UAE) is block all the apps to make a call. After seventeen days I was stressed at his sudden ghosting, I missed him and the situation was nagging me, haunting me, and so I decided to go to his home fifty minutes drive away and confront him.I’m tired to talking about why he vanishing, many times i talked but he keep vanishing and come back. Bcs if he love me he will make me important, and keep in touch with me no matter how busy he is, no matter how much he travels and no matter how much he has going on in his life. I told him i knew he was never going to contact me again.I remained calm and neutral and respectful as I wanted to retain my dignity.I know it’s hard to accept, especially if you really liked this guy, but you really do need to just trust that it’s for the best.