This does require a bit of faith and a lot of security, as you won’t be going on a lot of dates or doing a lot of “stuff” with people.You’ll need confidence in knowing that what you are doing is right.
Locked in a “bad” relationship, you would only have 480 hours to invest in your other potential relationships.
Since it took you only 2 months (about 160 hours) to find this suboptimal relationship, you have essentially lost the chance for about 12 other potential candidates!
(It’s not as black and white as this as we’ll discuss in the where to find a husband / wife section) Of course, this doesn’t mean you won’t enter into relationships that do satisfy your list and find out later that your list isn’t quite complete.
” then you two are “married” according to that definition. If you definitely need a wedding, then a wedding would be part of your definition of a marriage. Imagine the following scenario: You excitedly asked the other person, “Will you marry me? Fill in the blank: Here are the qualities I need in a husband / wife: Like the definition of marriage above, this list will help you determine what you are looking for, so that you spend a minimum amount of time pursuing the wrong people.
It lets you determine quickly who to ask and what to ask.
Without this list, one of the most common things that happen is that you meet someone who satisfies some of the qualities on your list.